(FREE printable) The secret message behind your child's hurtful words


Hi Reader,

Have you ever felt hurt by your child's angry words?

Often when children are hurting or overwhelmed, what comes out of their mouths are punchy words that try to gain control and get attention. Things like:

  • "You're the worst mom ever!"
  • "This is dumb."
  • "I want a different family."
  • "You never let me do what I want!"

My friend, I created a FREE printable to help you read the subtitles behind your child's hurtful words!

Add the printable to your cart and the code SECRETMESSAGE is automatically applied to make the printable free.

In this one-page resource, I included common examples of hurtful words children might say, the secret message your child is trying to communicate to you, and how you can respond with kindness and empathy.

I hope it helps you stay calm and listen to the right story.

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